Know Yourself

The more you know who you are and what you want , the less you let things upset you.

“Be yourself; everyone is already taken” ~Oscar Wilde

Do you indulge in activities to prove yourself? To impress acquaintances? To establish self worth? To build up self -esteem?
The best way you can prove yourself is by discovering yourself.
Find out what you're good at instead of following the whole world.
You deserve to be appreciated and approached the same way others are , that doesn't mean you have to be SAME.
The sole purpose of discovering oneself is to not fit in but stand out .
You should be able to assess what your likes and dislikes are and present your opinions more freely.
We have been given some rights which deserve to be exercised 'eh?

A society consists of a number of indigenous people. 
Everyone is different. Everyone is unique. 

Our society requires intelligent and people who speak for themselves .
There are , you say? WHERE?
I only see groups not individualism.

Discover your passion , your hobbies , your interests cause your opinion matters as much as the one's next to you. 

You do not have to justify your worth. The thought of proving yourself is entirely wrong and destructive as it presumes that some hierarchy of people’s worth exists. The truth is that everyone is worthy of love, respect, and kindness.

Take time to try different things to figure what you enjoy.
Time provides us with insights we never could discover ourselves. Give time to yourself. Be alone , do what makes you happy ; discover what makes you happy. 

Let go of expectations. This is not what you think , what I mean is to be happy with what you have rather than idolizing a situation whose definite occurrence is not known to us . Why stress out on things which have not happen or things we do not have and believe our world to be crumbling in front of us ; why not just cherish what we have at hand in the present.

Look after yourself. Always find time for self care . Celebrate with yourself cause you are your own best friend.  Even if it means spending a friday night indoors reading a good book cause you like it instead of going to a party you don't wanna go to just cause your social circle thinks it's 'cool'. 

Fitting in is overrated. Don't try to fit in a particular group. Be yourself and you'll attract authentic friendships. Your friends should be with you cause they enjoy your company and unique qualities. Some goes for us , we should like a person for their personality not because they are associated with a particular group or tag. 


"I think it's very healthy to spend time alone, You need to know how to be alone and not be defined by another person " - Oscar Wilde.